Showing posts with label safe container. Show all posts
Showing posts with label safe container. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 7, 2020

Safe Space Group Agreements developed by Nya Patrinos, C-IAYT


In a therapeutic yoga class or workshop where people share, I suggest that the facilitator/yoga therapist formulates group agreements in order to create a safe container for practice.  Ask the group to add to or modify the agreements as necessary until they are comfortable with the wording. The participation by the group in the process creates an interactive environment and keeps people engaged. When finished, the facilitator/yoga therapist can once again verify that everyone is satisfied with the agreements and ask whether there are any more to add.  Lastly, have everyone affirm the agreements either in writing or with closed eyes and a show of hands.

For a longer workshop, the group can revisit the agreements at the start of each day in case something has come up that needs to be addressed with additional agreements.

These are the agreements I have developed for working in group settings based on the yamas and the niyamas in Pantajali's Yoga Sutras.


1.  I agree to treat everyone in the group with gentleness, kindness, and compassion. I agree that I will not put anyone down or use abusive language.


2.   I will try not to go beyond my limits (do things that make me uncomfortable). I know that I can abstain from activities and take breaks. In a group or one-on-one discussion, I know that I have the right to pass if I don’t want to participate.


3.   When a person is talking, I agree to listen. I will attempt to practice “the art of 'extreme deep listening’ . . . beyond the words . . . listening to the tones; to the inflections; to the inferences."


4.  I agree that what people share at the class or workshop will remain confidential.


5.  I will focus on dignity, decency, mutual respect, and equality for everyone. I am aware that no harassment of any kind will not be tolerated.


6.  I will try to keep my intentions for the workshop straightforward and pure.  I am aware that intentions can be refined as the program goes on.


7.  I agree that I will enjoy the workshop but not at the expense of others. I am aware that bullying, shaming, violence, harassment, or hate speech will not be tolerated.


8.  I agree to attempt to stay engaged.  I will try to do the work of the workshop, and challenge myself while at the same time move safely in and out of my comfort zone.


9.  I will do the best I can.  I will attempt to notice feelings and emotions as/if they come up. I will allow time for self-reflection, journaling during and after the workshop.


10.  I will attempt to think of everything encountered as an opportunity to learn and connect with the Divine in whatever name or form seems appropriate to me.

Tuesday, April 7, 2020

Cultivating Safety in a Therapeutic Yoga Class or Workshop through the Yamas and Niyamas

In the group setting, the first step in welcoming the participants is taking an interest, making eye contact, learning names, playing appropriate music, and having appropriate décor (i.e.g., flowers, candles, creating an altar or absence of one). The choices should feel authentic to the therapist and support the client’s feeling that they are valued. Being knowledgeable about cueing, assisting, offering many carefully considered variations in practice, and knowing when to (and when not to) touch will help create a safe environment.

In a therapeutic yoga class where people share, ask the group to come up with agreements to follow, or the yoga therapist can start with their agreements and ask the group to add to them. This creates an interactive environment and keeps people engaged. When finished, the therapist should double-check that everyone is satisfied with the agreements and ask if there are any more to add. For a longer workshop, the group can revisit the agreements at the start of each day in case something has come up that needs to be addressed with additional agreements.

The yamas and niyamas are a wonderful beginning for establishing agreements within a therapeutic setting. The first yama, ahimsa (reverence, love, compassion for all , non-violence, reducing harm ) is an important step for group safety. Everyone in the workshop must agree to treat each other with gentleness, kindness, and compassion. No putdowns or abusive language by students or teachers will be tolerated. No unsolicited fixing or counseling will be tolerated. In addition, there will be no stealing or borrowing of possessions without permission.

The therapist should have everyone introduce themselves and encourage them to try to learn each other’s names. When a person is called by their name, they feel more valued, respected, and engaged in the conversation. But, the yoga therapist should not call a student out by name in asana class to criticize or praise them. If a student is in an unsafe position, the therapist can gently go to them and, in a direct and quiet manner, offer a prop or modification or teach the whole group the issue without singling anyone out. “. . . The experience of having your name said aloud in a trauma sensitive class can be shaming.”  When modeling asanas for the students, the therapist should use the most basic version of the posture so they are not intimidated. Hands-on assists or adjustments are contra-indicated in trauma-sensitive yoga.

The second yama, satya (truthfulness, integrity ) is expressed in asana practice by respecting one’s body and not going to the point of harm. The yoga therapist who should never push an individual or class beyond their limits or require someone to do something that makes them uncomfortable. They must allow students to abstain from activities and take breaks. In group or one-on-one discussions, the students have the right to pass if they don’t want to contribute to a conversation. In addition, what people share at the class or workshop should remain confidential. Group participants should use “I” statements when sharing beliefs and agree that what is shared should only come from personal experience. When speaking, they should never speak for others or make sweeping generalizations about groups of people.

The third yama, astheya (generosity, honesty , non-stealing ) can be used to form an agreement that when a person is talking, everyone else will listen and not steal their time. The group should practice “the art of 'extreme deep listening’ . . . beyond the words . . . listening to the tones; to the inflections; to the inferences — each subtlety of the sound. It's through these subtleties that you actually connect to the root understanding — what a person truly means; where they’ve come from to speak their words; what they’re intending with these words . . . “ 

The fourth yama, bramacharya (balance and moderation of the vital life force  and appropriate use of one’s vital energy ) can be explored by agreeing to focus on dignity, decency, mutual respect, and equality for everyone. The therapist must be clear that harassment of any kind will not be tolerated. “Yoga teachers in a trauma sensitive context might want to dress conservatively to minimize any distractions and to minimize triggers.”

The fifth yama, aparigraha (awareness of abundance, fulfillment,  and non-possessiveness ) can be used to celebrate abundance and practice gratitude. The teacher should leave ample time for questions and concerns, and be open to suggestions.

When working with the first niyama, saucha (simplicity, refinement,  purity, and cleanliness ), the yoga therapist and students can both keep intentions for the workshop straightforward and pure. Intentions should be refined as the program goes on. The yoga room and personal space should be kept simple and clean. The yoga therapist should use trauma-sensitive language, “which tends to be concrete and gently brings attention to visceral experiences.”  They can focus on the language of inquiry using words like “notice,” “be curious,” “allow,” “approach with interest,” “experiment,” and “feel.” They can also use invitatory language that promotes choice and control and includes words like “if you wish to,” “when you feel ready,” and “if you like.”  When using Sanskrit for yoga poses, or Latin or Greek in anatomy, they should always include the layman’s definition; otherwise, the class may feel intimidating to the students who are not familiar with the terms.

Connection to the second niyama, santosha (contentment, being at peace with oneself and others ), can happen by enjoying the workshop but not at the expense of others. Bullying, shaming, violence, harassment, or hate speech should never be tolerated. The yoga therapist must be aware of their position in the room when teaching and rarely turn their back to the students. “A trauma-sensitive yoga teacher does not move around during the class very much, and students know where to locate her or him (no surprises!)”  The room should be kept bright; “dark or dim rooms tend to be more triggering than bright rooms.”  In addition, students should not be instructed to close their eyes during savasana or meditation. The yoga therapist should consult students when setting up or making any changes to the room and give them as much control as possible over the environment.

The third niyama, tapas (igniting the purifying flame  and practice causing change or heat ), can be accessed by staying engaged. The therapist can encourage the group to do the work of the class or workshop, challenge themselves, an encourage students to safely move out of their comfort zone, on and off the mat.

The yoga therapist can work with the fourth niyama, svadhaya (sacred study of the Divine through scripture, nature and introspection  and self-study/observation ), by encouraging everyone to do the best they can. They should think of everything encountered as an opportunity to learn, and allow time for self-reflection, journaling, and getting out in nature when possible.

The yoga therapist can work with the fifth niyama, Isvara Pranidhana (wholehearted dedication to the Divine  and devotion, surrender to a higher force ), by seeing everything as a manifestation of the Divine. They should remember what a privilege it is to practice yoga. “Yoga takes back to the beginning of our journey of becoming human; we spark the memory that we are first and always an aspect of the Divine.”

The world we live in does not provide us with a safe container inside of which we to play the game of life. The reality of life is there will always be problems, adversity, sadness, disappointment . . . . The more we experience in ,life, the more difficulties we may encounter. As Ramakrisna said, “When the flower blooms, the bees come uninvited.” And Paramahansa Yogananda taught, “If you want to be sad, no one in the world can make you happy. But if you make up your mind to be happy, no one and nothing on earth can take that happiness from you.” As yoga therapist’s we can listen, advocate, educate, invite, offer, share, nurture, challenge, trust, hold space and honor our clients but we can’t fix them. We can’t do the work for them. Building resilience and creating safety is inside job, it begins with a desire, an inner longing to rise out of the mud of whatever adverse circumstances are holding us back and blossom the lotus of our being.

Sunday, December 25, 2016

Creating a cultural context for Yoga and Yoga Based Wellness Programs

In order to create a cultural context for Yoga and Yoga Based Wellness programs that students understand I believe we have to make a safe space for the Yoga practice. Here are some techniques I use in creating this sacred container:


1) I never force any one to chant Aum or any other mantra. I tell them it is perfectly acceptable not to participate.  In some environments I don't present any Sanskrit even the mantra Aum. When using Sanskrit I explain why we yogis consider it to be beneficial to use Sanskrit.

2) I never force anyone to use a mudra. I explain how we use mudras everyday and show (in a playful way) some of the everyday mudras we are already using.  But if mudras don't feel comfortable I offer permission to opt out without any ostracism.

3) I explain that yoga as a philosophical system and explain the system.

4) I present medical research about the benefits of Yoga and Meditation

5) I offer my own testimony about the benefits of Yoga and Meditation in my life if it seems appropriate

6) I let people know that the can chose to opt out of anything the feel uncomfortable with

7) I present the ancient history of yoga and show how it has been a healing modality for centuires

8) I talk about the concept of Ishwara Pranidhana in yoga - to follow your own God, deity, guru, belief system . . .

It is equally important to decolonize Yoga.  Yoga in the West is a strange and beautiful practice that at times in racist and classicist.

I really appreciate these points from Susanna Barkataki article "How to Decolonize Your Yoga Practice."
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/susanna-barkataki/how-to-decolonize-your-yo_b_6776896.html

"1. Inquire within.

One powerful way we can decolonize yoga and reunite it with its true aim and purpose is to practice Gandhian svadhyaya, or self-rule and inquiry, and to truly learn the full honest, integrity of an authentic yoga practice.

2. Explore, learn and cite correct cultural references.

As practitioners of yoga I would love to see more of us citing cultural references as we attempt to understand and connect with the complexity, culture and history from which this tradition comes. I’m not suggesting people put on a watered down, context-removed faux Hinduism. To me that is not the answer. Commitment to deep practice, questioning and learning is, perhaps, part of the answer.

3. Ask ourselves, and other yoga teachers, the hard questions.

These tensions ask us to bring all of ourselves to the table. So what I am suggesting is for us to decolonize yoga we need to inquire deeply. We each have our unique story and gifts to share as do all the practitioners we teach or learn from. Let’s ask ourselves, “For whom is yoga accessible today and how might that be a legacy of past injustices that we have the opportunity to address through our teaching practice and our lives?”

4. Live, know, share and practice all eight limbs of yoga, not just asana.

We can also decolonize yoga by studying the depth of practice beyond the postures. In addition to asana we need to understand, practice and teach all eight limbs of yoga: yama or ethical conduct, niyama or personal practice, pranayama or working with the breath, pratyahara awareness of the senses, dharana, meditation, concentration and insight, dhyana or being present with whatever arises and samadhi, or interconnection with all that is.

5. Be humble and honor your own and other people’s journey.

When we humbly and respectfully consider yoga’s history, context, many branches and practices we give ourselves a fighting chance achieving yoga’s aim of enlightenment of mind, body and spirit.

By really engaging the full, whole and multifaceted face of yoga we not only liberate ourselves but we may just overthrow this 2nd colonization of yoga, freeing ourselves as well as the yoga practitioners of the future to experience the full, liberatory, authentic and true practice of yoga. We allow our own practice to grow and our gifts to really shine.

With mutual understanding, respect, and a deep reverence and caring for the history, we can decolonize ourselves, the yoga-industrial complex, and stage our own ahimsa, or nonviolent revolution of the mind, body and spirit."